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He was not 'straight-acting' and at the time I 'looked like a dyke' and was very politically active in the campus gay community.

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You may think abuse only looks like physical violence. If your partner believes this about you, they might cause some problems. Are you ashamed to be with me or something?

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Together, you can talk about how to deal with biphobia. But the answer is not to internalize that biphobia and hide your identity out of shame.

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