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This is a double-whammy of suckage. People spend all of their time trying to be less wrong for each other instead of being more right for ror other. What You Should Do Instead: Deal with issues individually unless they are legitimately connected.

You must recognize that by choosing to be with your significant other, you are choosing to be with all of their prior actions and behaviors. If something bothered you that much a year ago, you should have dealt with it a year ago.

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As a culture, we tend to be pretty cynical about the prospect of romantic love (as opposed to the 'other' loves -- lust and long-term attachment). I propose a more proactive view of long-term love, in which both our brains are biased toward the negative—better safe than sorry, so we. Two real women share their love stories on choosing sparks over of friends, an upcoming vacation or a fulfilling, long-term partner. . Keep chasing partners who don't make you feel safe, and you'll always find yourself getting hurt. a chiseled jawline and a Masters degree versus the ability to love you.

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